Tantra massage: how does a tantric massage take place?
Are you interested in tantra but do not know where to start? Tantric massages can help you eroticize your sex life and discover new pleasures as a couple. Find out what tantra massages are for, how they work and what they do.
What is tantrism?
The term Tantrism is a collection of dogmas, rituals, texts and practices around spirituality that have strongly influenced Hindu and Buddhist religions. This school of thought considers that sexuality can lead to a form of ecstasy, both physical and spiritual. Sex is seen as a sacred thing, which can lead to a transcendent state. To achieve this, it is necessary to resort to practices and sexual rites, of which tantric massages (or tantra) are part. These practices of sacred sexuality guide individuals towards a powerful sensory experience, where the physical body mingles with the psychic to become one. Thus, with tantrism, the body is eroticized and becomes the support of orgasmic sensations. In the image of meditation, this form of sacred sexuality is seen as a profound personal experience, accessible to all through internal work.
A tantra massage, what does it consist of?
Tantric massages can be one of the ways to integrate Tantrism into one's relationship in a simple and progressive way. They can awaken the senses and awaken new or unexplored sensations. The tantric massage is a sensual and passionate exchange between the two partners, which is practiced only in an intimate setting (and not in a living room for example, because of its assumed sexual nature). It is practiced naked, using massage oil. There are no techniques or movements to speak of: a massage that is tantric will be felt more in its intention and in the erotic intensity of the gestures. Finally, the idea is to stimulate the whole body of your partner in different ways, by slow and subtle gestures.
The establishment of a tantra massage
The tantric massage requires a minimum of preparation, especially concerning the setting in which it will unfold. Settle into a room that is not crowded, clean and orderly. Nothing must come to disturb the sensual atmosphere and the carnal atmosphere of the moment. You can create an atmosphere by lighting candles, sifting lights or burning incense or essential oils. The idea is that the person who will be massaged is the most comfortable and the most relaxed possible. Put it comfortably on a bed, sofa or mattress with cushions. The best is to provide a massage oil (such as vegetable oil) to make the slide of the movements more pleasant. Finally, tantric massage is practiced naked, so consider heating the room sufficiently so that you or your partner are cold. It must indeed be as relaxed as possible, and a warm atmosphere is more conducive to relaxation.
The unfolding of a tantric massage
There are no precise movements for a tantra massage. Tantric massage is part of a global way of thinking, but it does not impose massage practices or specific rules. Some parameters must however be taken into account, such as the fact that the whole body must be stimulated, and not just the back for example. Every part of the body must be seen as an erogenous zone and must be considered and touched. Similarly, the more intense and varied the movements (supported, slow, then lighter at times), the more the exchange between the two partners will be strong. The tantra massage remains a massage above all marked by love, tenderness and passion. It should not be done solely for the purpose of sexually exciting his or her partner. It must be seen as a passionate exchange that combines eroticism, spirituality and pleasure of the senses.
The benefits of tantra massages
The tantra massage allows you to refocus on your sexual energy and awaken your senses. In a couple, it can strengthen the passion and bond that unites you by discovering other forms of pleasure and bodied carnal to two. In the same way, thanks to its spiritual dimension, tantra makes it possible to consider the relation to the body in another way and to associate the physical pleasure with the mental awakening. If you want to evolve in your relationship and experience new things in your relationship to sex, Tantra can help you approach your sexuality differently. Finally, as for "classic" massages, tantra massages can relax the person who receives and relax his body.